Psychotherapy
What does Psychotherapy do?
Psychotherapy, also known as talk therapy, is a collaborative process where we work together to explore your thoughts, feelings, and behaviors. Through this process, we aim to help you gain deeper insight into your experiences, develop healthier coping strategies, and make meaningful changes in your life. My client-centered approach highlights your goals, values, and unique circumstances that guide our work together.
Area of Focus
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Anger Manangement
Learn to understand and manage your anger in healthy ways. We’ll explore the triggers behind your emotions and develop practical strategies to help you respond calmly and constructively.
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Anxiety
We’ll address the thoughts and behaviors that contribute to anxiety. You’ll gain tools to manage worry and fear, allowing you to live with more peace and confidence.
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Depression
We’ll work to uncover the underlying causes of your depression and develop coping strategies that bring relief. My goal is to help you rediscover hope and reclaim your life.
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Relationship
Whether you’re navigating friendships, family dynamics, or romantic partnerships, I can help you build healthier, more fulfilling relationships. We’ll focus on communication, boundaries, and mutual understanding.
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Interracial Marriage
Interracial couples often face unique challenges related to culture, identity, and family dynamics. I offer a safe space to explore these issues and strengthen your relationship through understanding and mutual respect.
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International Students
Adjusting to a new culture and academic environment can be overwhelming. I provide support for international students as they navigate cultural differences, homesickness, and academic pressures.
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Pregnancy/Postpartum
Pregnancy and the postpartum period bring significant physical and emotional changes. I provide compassionate support to help you navigate this transition and address any feelings of anxiety, depression, or overwhelm.
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Self-exploration and Growth
If you’re seeking a deeper understanding of yourself, I’m here to guide you on your journey. We’ll explore your values, beliefs, and goals to help you grow into the person you want to be.
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Life Transitions
Major life changes, planned or unexpected, can be challenging to navigate. I help you process these transitions and find stability and strength during times of uncertainty.
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Stress Management
Stress can take a toll on your mental and physical health. I work with you to identify stressors and develop effective strategies to manage and reduce stress, enhancing your overall well-being.
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Trauma and PTSD
Trauma can have lasting effects on your life and well-being. I provide a safe, supportive environment to process your experiences and help you move towards healing and recovery.
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Work Life Balance
Struggling to balance professional and personal responsibilities? Together, we’ll explore ways to create harmony in your life, ensuring that your work doesn’t overshadow your well-being.
My Approaches
Compassionate: I genuinely care about your well-being and approach our work together with empathy and kindness. I’m here to listen without judgment, supporting you through whatever challenges you’re facing.
Culturally Sensitive: I recognize and respect the diverse backgrounds, values, and experiences that shape who you are. I make sure our therapy considers and honors your cultural identity, beliefs, and traditions.
Trauma-Informed: I understand the impact that past traumas can have on your life. In our sessions, I’m mindful of these experiences, ensuring that the therapy process feels safe, supportive, and empowering for you.
I understand that each person’s journey is unique. With a safe, nonjudgmental space, you can feel truly heard and supported. My practice is LGBTQIA+ affirming, strength-based, and centered on fostering your resilience and growth.
What to Expect
In our sessions, we will work together to identify your goals and create a personalized plan to achieve them. Through open dialogue, practical strategies, and self-reflection, we’ll address the challenges you face and work towards lasting positive change.
Therapy is a process, not a magic pill.- Mandaran Labrum
Therapy is a journey that requires dedication and commitment. It’s a process of self-evaluation, growth, and increasing self-awareness. To make lasting changes, you’ll need to invest time and effort. Here’s a general guide to what the process looks like:
Session 1: The Intake
In our first session, we’ll get to know each other, and for me to understand what’s happening in your life that has brought you to therapy. This is where we start building the foundation of our work together. A thorough psychosocial assessment will be conducted during this intake session. Come in with who you are, be comfortable, and let’s dive in.
Sessions 2-4: Building Trust
During the next few sessions, my focus is on creating a safe, nonjudgmental space where you feel comfortable sharing your thoughts and feelings. We’ll explore your experiences, insecurities, fears, strengths, and hopes. I’ll introduce coping skills, but the primary goal here is to establish trust and get a clear understanding of your perspective.
Sessions 5 and Beyond: The Work May Begin
The length and frequency of therapy varies based on your needs. After we’ve built a solid foundation of trust, we’ll dive deeper into the work. This is where true growth happens with creating a clear path forward.—through self-reflection, processing past hurts, addressing fears, and setting goals for your future.
(The above content is referenced from Mandarin Labrum’s article.)
FAQs in Psychotherapy
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Therapy can be beneficial for anyone looking to improve their mental well-being. If you’re unsure, consider what’s prompting you to explore therapy—are you struggling with stress, anxiety, relationship issues, or just feeling stuck? In our initial consultation, we can discuss your concerns and goals to help you determine if therapy is the right step for you.
It’s okay if therapy doesn’t feel like the right fit for you at the moment. Therapy is a personal journey, and it’s important that it aligns with your needs and comfort level. If you find that therapy isn’t working or isn’t what you expected, we can explore other options together, such as different therapeutic approaches, alternative resources, or self-help strategies. The goal is to support you in finding the best path forward for your well-being.
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The duration of therapy varies depending on your individual needs and goals. Some people find relief in just a few sessions, while others may benefit from longer-term therapy. Having a treatment plan helps us track your progress and expectation in therapy. We’ll regularly review your progress and adjust our plan to ensure it meets your evolving needs.
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Yes, confidentiality is a cornerstone of therapy. What you share in our sessions stays between us, with a few legal exceptions (like if there’s a risk of harm to yourself or others). I’ll explain these exceptions clearly so you can feel safe and secure in sharing your thoughts and feelings. Feel free to ask questions at anytime you need regarding confidentiality.
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It’s crucial that you feel comfortable and connected with your therapist. If, for any reason, you don’t feel that connection, it’s okay to discuss it. We can explore what might be causing that feeling, and if needed, I can help you find another therapist who might be a better fit. Your comfort and trust are key to successful therapy.
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Absolutely! Therapy is designed to accommodate different personalities and communication styles. If you're an introvert or find it challenging to express yourself, that’s perfectly okay. We can work at a pace that feels comfortable for you and use various techniques to help you express your thoughts and feelings in a supportive environment that respects your style of communication, and together, we can find ways that help you feel more at ease with sharing and exploring your experiences.
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If you’re seeking support for a loved one, the first step is to encourage them to reach out to a mental health professional for themselves. You can help by providing information about therapy options, offering to assist with the process, or even suggesting a consultation with a therapist. It’s important to approach the topic with sensitivity and support, respecting their readiness to seek help. I'd love to speak with you to assist with a conversation.
If they’re not ready to take that step, you might consider seeking guidance yourself from a therapist or counselor on how best to support them and manage the situation while they come to terms with their own needs.